Path to Connecting

"Growth is often not an attraction issue- it's a connecting issue."

~ some guy I was talking to, I think Rob

When Rob said this it hit me renewed conviction for our mission. If we faithfully work to create a culture where people connect with God, with others, with the world, then attracting people to our church will not be an issue.
If we do this, we'll be fighting to keep up with the pace of growth!

I meet with a couple this week who reiterated this vision. We kept laughing at how many times the word connection came up in our discussion of what we want in our church, in our lives, in our families, in our community.

So, going back to my conversation with the guys on Tuesday, what are some lessons we've learned about getting folks connected (when I say we I mean "they"):
1. You have 9 months. Statistically folks will visit for up to 9 months, but if in that time they don't move to the next level of connection, they will drift away.
2. Create a starting point, or first step, or something "101" to give people a place to connect. Some one time gathering, that is itself a first step of connection, but very clearly lays out the path for continuing commitment to the church.
3. Do something Sunday morning. The folks you're attracting are already there- seize the moment.
4. Get their contact information.
5. Then contact them! Follow-up with everyone who actually volunteers their information is crucial. They are essentially opening the door.
6. "Shoulder tapping." Few things are as powerful as feeling wanted. To tap someone on the should, ask for their help, invite them to lunch, offer them a coffee, is a very "connecting" moment for people.

I just thought those ideas were worth sharing.
Tomorrow- the path of growth.